2.01.2012

We're Just Like Crayons

We're Just Like Crayons(Diversity Song for Young Children)
by Stephen Fite



We're just like crayons
Spread over the world
Just like my crayons
All over the floor
Black, brown, yellow, red & white
It's such a wonderful sight
We're just like crayons
All over the world

I was coloring a picture
Of the earth the other day
When my baby sister decided
That she wanted to play
She grabbed my box of crayons
And turned them upside down
Of course the crayons left the box
And fell right to the ground
And when I looked down at the mess
I knew was waiting for me
A thought popped right into my brain
Then I began to see

We're just like crayons
All over the world
Just like my crayons
All over the floor
Black, brown, yellow, red & white
It's such a wonderful sight
We're just like crayons
All over the world

Now even though the color
Of my skin is not the same
As yours or yours of his or hers
One fact is very plain
I'm no better or no less
Than anybody else now
And if you're wandering why that is
Then let me tell you how
We were all created
Created equally
So we should all just live
Together peacefully

Just like crayons
All over the world
Just like my crayons
All over the floor
Black, brown, yellow, red & white
It's such a wonderful sight
We're just like crayons
All over the world

1.16.2012

The Help

This weekend, I finally watched The Help.  The one thing that I can't stop thinking about is this... How are times any different now?  This is the way I understand the slavery/segregation/discrimination situation as it has evolved..
Slavery in the US birthed from the Atlantic Slave Trade which began a LONG time ago (I'm not a history major and I apologize..)
Slavery abolished in the US in 1865 by the 13th Amendment to the US Constitution.
The 13th Amendment to the Constitution declared that "Neither slavery nor involuntary servitude, except as a punishment for crime whereof the party shall have been duly convicted, shall exist within the United States, or any place subject to their jurisdiction." 

Segregation was born in the Southern states to restrict the rights of the newly freed slaves soon after slavery is ended. Segregation in schools, restrooms, restaurants, water fountains, bus rides, housing, jobs, etc. existed until 1954 when public schools began desegregating.  This began many civil rights acts to follow including voter obstruction (1957), segregation in the workplace and public accommodations (1964), segregation in housing (1968).

It sounds as if things should have made tremendous strides since 1968, however, there is no Civil Rights act, law or amendment against discrimination in our minds.  In the movie, The Help, African American maids are working for higher class Caucasian families.  A majority of the maids and their families are treated as objects, with no worth, no regard for their well being or their dignity, and looked at as lesser, simply because of their skin color.  The only group of caucasians that are not at all discriminant towards the African Americans are the children that they raised.  These children love the women that cared for them regardless of color, age, socioeconomic status, education, etc.  They loved the women that cared for them because of the care, love and affection shown to them.

Today, in 2012, I still see discrimination and the treatment of African Americans as not too far evolved.  I live in a small town in which Walmart is a major attraction and point of reference, so this blog post will use it as such and again, I apologize..  In my town's Walmart, I am most often greeted by an African American woman.  I go through the check out line where I am most often checked out by an African American woman.  When I leave, I am most often told "Thank you and come again" by an African American woman.  In the parking lot are most often African American men that are moving the shopping carts back to the building.  I go on about my business, most often, and I do not really have much regard for these individuals, their families, their dignity, or their well being.  I went into Walmart with an agenda and left without giving much consideration to the people that I may even unintentionally deem as lesser than myself.  What would happen if I greeted the greeter with something more than a smile and a nod?  What would happen if I didn't think most highly of my agenda but thought most highly of who God is in my life and made it a point to share His love with others, even in Walmart.  What would happen if I just provided more than a little kindness to the man that is collecting shopping carts in the parking lot as a means of providing for his family, his schooling, or whatever the case may be?  What would happen if I thought enough about the freedom I have experienced in my life because of the blood of Jesus Christ and His resurrection and I couldn't help but share that with the "least of these"?  What would happen if I got to know the people I see most often at Walmart and got to know their stories and their circumstances because they matter to God?
I am challenged by the movie with the fact that taking the time to get to know someone's story, their circumstances and their feelings can make a huge impact.  I am challenged and motivated to get to know people in my community, and in my community Walmart, so that they will know that their story and their feelings matter to an Almighty God.  That they have validity and worth because they were created in His image and His likeness.  That He loves them and has a redemptive plan for their lives.  May I be intentional and found faithful...

1.12.2012

Sometimes I forget

Sometimes I forget what it's like to have a spotless clean house..  A peaceful moment..  Nothing to do.. Sometimes I forget what it's like to go to the bathroom by myself..  Or to read a book that doesn't rhyme or have vibrant illustrations...  Sometimes I forget that I once was just Jennifer and not "mommy".  Sometimes I forget that it is a blessing to forget so much..  It means that I have been allowed to be used and to see a new day.  Today, I am thankful.  Thankful for the 3 kids that call me mom and mommy..  Thankful for the 1 that I have yet to meet but already love tremendously..  Thankful for a husband that loves the Lord with all his heart, mind and strength and loves me as Christ loved the church.  Sometimes I forget to be thankful.  But not today...  Today I remember that I am to press on towards the goal of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.

12.18.2011

Racism is learned..

Tonight, Jay and I were Christmas shopping and naturally we were on a toy aisle.  TOTAL CHAOS fills the stores one week before Christmas and we were amidst it all.  This particular night, the chaos didn't bother me though.  I guess I've been conditioned by my children with all of the grocery shopping trips I've made with all three kids; or maybe the fact that I homeschool a 6th grader, a kindergarten boy, and preschool princess diva has been a key factor in viewing Christmas shopping on December the 18th a piece of cake.  I bet you're wondering by now why the title of this post is what it is..  :)  Well, here goes..  On one of those toy aisles was a group of three women walking aimlessly without a shopping cart and no merchandise in their hands.  One of the women said to the other two "My daughter is always asking for a black baby doll when we come to the store and I'm always like 'Really?  No, you're not playing with a black baby.'".   As the mom of one super adorable and precious brown diva, I was hurt.  Why would someone tell their child in the most formative years of their life that they can't play with a baby doll because it has different color skin than they do?  What is the harm in having baby dolls that don't look like your family??  Why can't white children have brown baby dolls?  Why can't brown children have white baby dolls?  My little diva has broadened my viewpoint of things.  She has taught me so many things that I never would have been able to learn otherwise.  I'm so thankful to have her, not only because of what she has taught me, but because she is such a joy!!  I'm praying tonight for that lady's little girl.  I'm praying that one day she will get to have a brown baby...  One just like mine!!! ;)

8.29.2011

..::Powerful words from Ezekiel::..

Ezekiel 33--
  "his blood will be on his own head"(v. 5)   vs.   "I will hold the watchman accountable for his blood"(v. 6)

I am so challenged and convicted by today's reading from Ezekiel.  All 20 verses of it!  The chapter starts out with a charge from the Lord to Ezekiel to tell his countrymen "when I bring the sword against a land, and the people of the land choose one of their men and make him their watchman, and he sees the sword coming against the land and blows the trumpet to warn the people, then if anyone hears the trumpet but does not take warning and the sword comes and takes his life, his blood will be on his own head."(vs. 2-5)
First of all it says when I bring the sword...  The LORD doesn't say that we will have smooth sailing, and abundance of peace and prosperity here on earth.  He says that we will encounter blessings, like "the sword" and persecution for the sake of the gospel.  That's right, I called those things blessings.  How else would we learn to be made more like Christ without experiencing even a fraction of the things that Christ endured??
Verses 7-11...  "Son of man, I have made you a watchman for the house of Israel; so hear the word I speak and give them warning from me.  When I say to the wicked, 'O wicked man, you will surely die,' and you do not speak out to dissuade him from his ways, that wicked man will die for his sin, and I will hold you accountable for his blood.  But if you do warn the wicked man to turn from his ways and he does not do so, he will die for his sin, but you will have saved yourself.  


Oh my...  so if a watchman is one who announces what he sees, as believers, we are all watchmen.  We are to watch over our community and give warning..  Act on what we see..
I see a community of lostness.  I see families that are hurting, people that are dying apart from Christ.  I see souls that are trying to fulfill their deepest longings and desires with EVERYTHING except Jesus!  As I see these things, I notice that God's word says that if I do not speak out to dissuade the wicked from his ways, the wicked man will die for his own sins and I will be held accountable for his blood...  I hold the answers of the free gift of salvation, peace, joy and eternal security.  How much must I hate someone to not share these things with the destitute, deprived, defeated members of my community.  I will be held without excuse...

Colossians 1:9-14 says, "and so, from the day we heard, we have not ceased to pray for you, asking that you may be filled with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, so as to walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing to him, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God.  May you be strengthened with all power, according to his glorious might, for all endurance and patience with joy, giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of the saints in light.  He has delivered us from the domain of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of his beloved Son, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.

Lord, because of the deliverance of my soul, because of the transfer of my eternal citizenship, because of the forgiveness of my sins, may I be found worthy of you!  May I be compelled and motivated by the goodness of YOU and may I overflow these things.  May I be intentional, purposeful and diligent in being a watchman for Senatobia.  

Phonics song!


Today, we found this on the internet!  Youtube has turned out to be a great educational resource.  :)
Will is not the happiest about doing school work.  As a matter of fact he is pretty huffy and grumpy about it most of the time.  That's ok though.  I'm not too concerned about letting his mood dictate our school day!  He's not the boss of me!!

8.24.2011

Pray for Ethiopia

Today the kids learned about Ethiopia and of course I decided to let them make a craft to help them remember what they learned.


They each have things on their paper that they want to pray for concerning Ethiopia.  Even Ana contributed and enjoyed the activity!  

The continent of Africa is their footprint -- Romans 10:15.  The color of the three papers is the color of the Ethiopian flag.  Those are coffee beans (don't tell Jay) glued on their map in the place of Ethiopia because coffee is the main export in Ethiopia.  

Yay for being able to homeschool my children and teaching them to have a love for the nations!